As a submissive, being cuckolded is the purest form of our kink. It’s the complete package of surrender and humiliation. Pegging is a close second. These are universal themes for submissive men, but they’re hardly the only way in which a submissive male can surrender himself sexually to his mistress. In fact, the way these two acts are portrayed make them seem mostly about gratifying the (supposedly submissive) male’s desires.
When you surrender yourself sexually to a dominant person, that means that your sex life happens on their terms. It’s not as exciting as cuckolding, but it’s just as powerful and fulfilling to the submissive. Much more importantly, it’s what the dominant wants, which should be the submissive’s only consideration.
When my wife and I decided that she should assume a dominant role and I ought to assume as subservient role in our marriage, that included sex. She didn’t go out and start sleeping with other men, which she believes is too risky and more trouble than it’s worth. She did, however, find other ways to take on a level of sexual freedom that most vanilla couples would find very problematic.
My wife no longer leaves any doubt as to what she finds attractive in men, and never hesitates to point it out to me. Sometimes it’s done to motivate me to go to the gym, to eat better, to run for longer, or to dress better. Sometimes it’s to humiliate me, and point out how lucky I am to be married to her when she could replace me with a man with much more sexual capital than me. Sometimes it’s just because she sees someone that gets her going.
I like it when she points this out, because it fits my little kink quite nicely. I’m safely locked away in my little pink tube, so we both know where she stands in relation to me. I know this is what she likes, so she does it.
As time has gone on, she has become more open about using her privileges. In the mornings, she will often have me hold her while she uses one of the vibrators I’ve bought for her. She enjoys being held and not having to think about my pleasure at all. She enjoys pointing out men she likes without having to worry at all about me getting jealous. She enjoys teasing me about cute girls, knowing that she could sleep with the attractive men she sees, but I have no chance of being acknowledged by any of the attractive women she points out.
It’s even better than cuckolding–it’s what she wants, and only what she wants. It’s frustrating and humiliating, and I’m thankful for it.