If you’ve been reading this blog, you know I haven’t been in chastity the ENTIRE year. Here’s an update:
My wife’s interest in chastity comes and goes. She loves the effect it has had on my personality and our relationship, but sometimes her interest in general kink comes and goes. She’s never sick of it or opposed to it, but we’ve been D/s for so long it’s just kind of assumed and frankly a little boring.
I’m always happy to answer questions on email (firstname.lastname@example.org) and in the comments, but I’ll answer the predictable ones now.
What was the longest time you went without an orgasm?
Earlier in the year, she started me off by stretching out the time we went between my orgasms. The longest I went without an orgasm was approximately three months.
How many orgasms did you have last year?
So I’ve more or less lost count. It was more than 20, but definitely less than 30. If I had to guess I’d say 24. We went on three trips this year and my wife likes vacation sex.
How many times did your wife orgasm last year?
About 5 orgasms for her for every one of mine. That I know of 😉
What device do you use?
I wear a Holy Trainer 2.0, regular tube, in pink. It’s very comfortable. I know commenters have said it’s possible to slide out, especially with a ‘comfortable’ ring. Removing it while locked would be extremely painful for me–I’ve tried! My ring is on the tighter side but I put lotion around my balls when I install it, which eliminates chafing.
Where is your key kept?
My wife has a chain that she keeps our key on. When it’s just us and she wants to show off, it’s around her neck. In public, she has a Tiffany Key that she wears openly, even around our parents. She and I know what it signifies, and everyone else just assumes she has conventional taste in jewelry. When she’s wearing her Tiffany I know better than to fucking ask where the key is. That would be more time.
Are you allowed to masturbate while released?
Technically yes, but this would be frowned upon by my wife so I avoid it. All but a half-dozen or so orgasms were had with my wife. I confessed each time, and time was added to each locked period.
Does she tease you?
Yes. With the cage on. we tried teasing with the cage off but it took forever to get soft and it was very tempting to run off and play with myself.
Do you have your prostate milked?
We haven’t tried this. She’s in the medical field and did some research. Three months has no negative effects, and some data show potential positive effects.
How long will you go for this year?
I don’t know, that’s not my decision to make anymore.